On being indecisive

We've all been called indecisive at some point. I used to take it as a personal attack, like it was a flaw I needed to fix. But I slowly realized that changing my mind is one of the most honest things I can do for myself. Staying on the wrong path just to seem consistent is so much more costly than simply turning around.

My twenties have taught me that none of us really know what we're doing. We are all just figuring it out one mistake at a time. The only move is to decide and then trust yourself to make it work because every choice either teaches you or rewards you.

As long as we are alive we get to choose again.

Now let's talk about intuition ✨

So many of us, especially women, have spent years being talked out of what we already know. We have stayed in situations we should have left because we have doubted the voices in our heads.

Your intuition is not irrationality dressed up. It is every experience you have ever lived, every pattern you have noticed, every feeling you were told not to trust, all of it distilled into one quiet signal.

Sometimes it doesn't feel like clarity. It feels like being doubtful of something that looks great on paper. Sometimes it's just a feeling of stillness and peace that comes over you when you finally stop running from the answer you already have.

The hardest part is actually trusting this little voice in your head.Every time you override it, you teach yourself that your inner knowing isn't safe to follow.

So this is your reminder , and maybe your permission, to come back to yourself 🤍and ask yourself what you already know.